If you've ever managed to bugger up toast (guilty as charged), this is probably a conversation you've had with yourself at one time or another.
But according to Alice Zaslavsky, the kitchen should be a place where failure is not only welcomed, but encouraged.
Unfortunately this is the final question we have time for today, but we'll leave you with this sage advice:
Alice: We have so many pressures in our lives and so many goals that we feel like we need to get exactly right, otherwise we're a failure. And the kitchen should be a place where failure is not only welcomed, but encouraged, because that's how you learn.
Obviously you don't want to burn your kitchen down or cut a finger off, but when it comes to all these expectations that we set on ourselves for perfection, if you are cooking from that place where you're afraid of setting a foot wrong, that's probably where you are going to overthink something.
And so it's about letting loose and setting yourself free and knowing that everything can be fixed as well. For example, if you're worried about burning stuff, you control the heat, so don't crank the oven so high.
And if you know you're the sort of person that is doing a million things at once and worried that you're going to forget and burn something, set yourself up to win. Get yourself a little kitchen timer with a little alarm. That's what they do in professional kitchens and put it next to the stove and set it to five minute increments.
We've already got enough places in our lives where we need to live up to expectations — so why make the kitchen another one?
Alice: So it's just about kind of realising and recognising that no one is born knowing how to cook and being a perfect cook in the kitchen. Even professional chefs still make mistakes.
So we've got enough places in our lives where we feel like we need to stack up or live up to expectations. It would really behoove you to not make the kitchen another one of those places because actually there's nobody who is judging you in that place even. I have had like Michelin star chefs come for dinner and I've learned that I could make a cheese sandwich and they will just be happy that somebody has cooked for
them.